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New
to a student advising system?
Here's what you can expect
What is an advisor?
An advisor is a faculty member who helps oversee and guide
your child's overall experience at Milton, and serves as the
main communication link between you and the School, on matters
that relate to your child. Each faculty member typically advises
six to eight students. Boarding students' advisors usually
live in, or are closely associated with a student's house.
Students in Classes IV - I often have the same advisor for
all their Milton years. Middle school students have one advisor
in Classes VI and V, and a different advisor for Classes IV
- I.
What should I expect of my child's
relationship with his or her advisor?
You can expect that your child's advisor will know your child
well - his or her academic, extracurricular and personal situation.
Your student should feel comfortable reaching out to his or
her advisor, to seek information, support or ideas. Advisors
should meet and talk with their advisees frequently - in a
group or individually, once a week at a minimum. Advisors
will either be able to answer your child's questions (or your
own) about School policies, academic and otherwise, or he
or she will seek the correct answers are and get back to the
student. If a student is involved in any academic or disciplinary
difficulty, the advisor is at his or her side, - as his or
her advocate and adult guide. Some - not all - students develop
close relationships with their advisors, who become friends
and mentors. Other students develop those same close relationships
with faculty members other than their advisors. In any case
an advisor is a responsive person always willing to listen,
support and help direct an advisee.
What should I expect from my child's
advisor?
You can expect to be able to turn to the advisor for a picture
of your child at Milton, to get an adult sense of how he or
she is doing relative to the challenges of growing up and
taking responsibility for his learning and his experience
at Milton. You can expect that the advisor will know about
regulations, policies and typical patterns of teenagers responding
to the particular demands of each year in high school. The
advisor will write summary reports about your child's progress
that accompany his or her course grades and comments. You
can expect that an advisor will reach out to you during the
first months that your student is new to Milton, and thereafter,
as well, when the need to inform you of something affecting
the student arises. Conversely, if you reach out to the advisor,
by phone or email, the advisor will get back to you. The advisor
can tell you who to talk to at Milton about any issue you'd
like to express or resolve. The advisor's central relationship
is with the student - but the advisor works in partnership
with the parents as well, to assure the best possible experience
at Milton.
What is my responsibility to the advisor?
A faculty member who advises a student will always be able
to relate better or help a child more effectively if he or
she has relevant information about a child. If family or developmental
issues could affect a child's experience at School, then be
sure to tell the advisor. If you observe patterns that trouble
you, whether your child lives at Milton or at home, speak
to the advisor about them. If your family is facing a challenge,
let the student's advisor know. If you have a question, and
do not know where to direct your question, start with your
child's advisor.
What is a class dean?
The class deans assume overall responsibility for members
of each class. The class deans supplement, but do not replace,
a student's individual advisor. They coordinate the policies
of all the advisors working with a given class. They are responsible
for supervision of class activities and homeroom spaces. Class
deans also work with student leaders to plan class events
and to establish positive and respectful relationships within
the class. Parents should feel free to call the class deans
at any time.
Advisors come in all styles, just as students and parents
do. All Milton advisors, however, want to help students maximize
their opportunities for academic and personal growth at Milton.
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