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December 2003
Vol II Issue 3

 



Musing on Mentoring
Last weekend my eyes fell on an article in the Boston Globe about mentoring and the power of mentors in the lives of young people. Jay Leno talked about a favorite English teacher, and a Boston meteorologist talked about a great graduate school professor. The article led me to think about my own children and their mentors, your children and their mentors here and at home, and my own mentors both in school and in work. [Read More]



Upcoming Information Sessions About
Off-campus Study Programs:


The Mountain School Program of Milton Academy
CityTerm at the Masters School
The Maine Coast Semester of the Chewonki Foundation

In order to stimulate thinking about possibilities for Class III students for the 2003-2004 academic year, the Academy will host information sessions about off-campus programs in January at the following times:

Thursday, January 8: The Mountain School Program of Milton Academy (3:00 PM) (Required for all Class III students)

Monday, January 12: CityTerm at the Masters School (6:45 PM)

Tuesday, January 13: The Maine Coast Semester of the Chewonki Foundation (6:45 PM)

All of the presentations will take place in Greeley Auditorium, in the basement of the Science Building, and will include a slide show and an opportunity for questions. Parents are most welcome to attend. [Read More]




Lessons Learned From Nemo
Last Friday night, 7th and 8th grade students congregated in Ware Hall for a beach party with Beach Boys’ music, wading pools, and pizza. The animated movie chosen by the students was “Finding Nemo”, the recent smash from Disney and Pixar, which tells the story of a clown fish named Nemo. At the beginning of the movie, Nemo’s father, Marlin, demonstrates all of the signs of an overprotective parent. For example, Nemo is excited to explore the sea on his first day of school while his father is worried and anxious about letting him go. The theme of this movie turns out to be “letting go” and how it is important for parents to remain ever watchful while giving their children room to swim on their own (even if it means some bumps and scrapes along the way.)

During adolescence, students experience tremendous change— emotional, social, cognitive and physical. They want to form their own identities and spend more time reflecting on daily interactions they have with peers and adults. As your son or daughter experiences these changes, redefining your role is important. [Read More]

 

Bach, Handel and Zulu songs performed by Classes V and VI

On November 12, 2003, Middle School students performed a concert for local senior citizens. In Greenleaf’s Thacher Room, Class V students performed pieces including Bach’s “Grant Me True Courage” and “Sansa Kroma,” a Zulu song. Class V solists were Lily Kaiser, vocalist; Will English, drummer; Steve Wagner, violinist; Allan Jean-Baptiste, violist; and Samantha Bondaryk, oboe player. Class VI students performed pieces such as Handel’s “Art Thou Troubled?” and C. Fayolle’s “Le Billot.” Featured performers for the Class VI portion of the program were Sarah Loucks, Alec Seymor, vocalists; Alisha Magnus-Louis, Angelica Cristello, (Class V) cellists; and Drew Douglas-Steele, harpist. The concert was directed by Louise Mundinger; Ted Whalen accompanied students on piano.


Q: I’ve heard that many airlines have regulations requiring many 14-year-olds (Class IV students) to fly as unaccompanied minors. What do I need to know?

A: The frequency of children traveling by themselves has led airlines to set up programs that address the specific needs of children traveling alone. While most airlines require these programs for children under 12, there are a some airlines that require students 14 and younger to take part in their unaccompanied minor program. [Read More]

 

Important Date Changes to the
Milton Academy Parents' Association Calendar of Events

 
Please make the following changes on your calendars.
The January 13 speaker will now address parents on January 28, 2004:
 
January 28
7:00 pm
Straus Library
Speaker: Attorney Richard P. Campbell
"Social Host Liability: Be a Parent-Not a Pal"
 
The May 4 speaker will be author Barbara Strauch:
 
May 4
7:00 pm
Straus Library
Speaker:  Barbara Strauch
Author, The Primal Teen
 
More information will follow in an early January mailing. We are excited about the addition of Barbara Strauch. Robin Robertson highly recommends her book, The Primal Teen, and if you are looking for an interesting read during the wintery days coming our way, add this to your list.   We hope everyone enjoys the upcoming holidays and we look forward to seeing you on January 28. 

 

Download and watch the November 13, 2003 Parents' Association meeting
On November 13, John R. Knight MD , founder and director of the Center for Adolescent Substance Abuse Research (CeASAR) at Children's Hospital Boston, spoke to parents about the adolescent brain and recognizing the signs of substance abuse. Download a video of the speech.


 
Milton Mix-Up
Answers to frequently asked questions

What is the Milton Mix-Up?
The Milton Mix-Up is an evening of dinner parties hosted by parents of Milton students. It is an opportunity for parents to meet each other in an informal setting. The evening takes place in homes in the Greater-Boston area.

When is the dinner?
This year's date is Saturday, February 7, and coincides with the Parents’ Weekend for Class II. All of the dinners are on this date.

What does being a host mean?

Hosts are Milton parents who offer the use of their home as the venue for a casual evening of dining and conversation. They decide on the menu, the number of people and whether to have buffet or table seating. Most people choose to serve a pot luck dinner to which all guests contribute. [Read More]


Summer Opportunities Fair
Is Your Child Ready For Camp?

How can you know in January whether or not your child will be ready for overnight camp next summer? Although summer seems a long way off, January is the time to start the decision making process by discussing, suggesting and most importantly, listening to your child.

Decisions based on knowledge will always be the best ones. Present your child with lots of information and always include them in discussions about camp. As a parent there are prime questions to ask to determine “camp readiness.”

  • Does my child sleep over at friend’s homes comfortably?
  • When staying at a friend’s house do they need to call home often?
  • Have you discussed the different aspects of the camp experience? Things to consider are:
    - They will eat meals in a dining hall with 200 to 300 campers.
    - They will see parents on visiting day and speak with them occasionally by phone.
    - They will sleep in a bunk, with or without bathroom facilities in the cabin.
    - There will be 6 to 10 other campers and 2 counselors in the cabin.

The Summer Opportunities Fair at Milton Academy on Sunday, January 11 is a wonderful chance to meet with the camp directors. Representatives of Student Camp & Trip Advisors will be there to answer your questions and to steer you in the right direction.

Join us at the 12th annual
Milton Academy Summer Opportunities Fair
Sponsored by Milton Academy Parents’ Association &
Student Camp & Trip Advisors

Sunday, January 11, 2004
1:00 to 4:00 p.m.

STUDENT CAMP & TRIP ADVISORS
Beverly Shiffman, President
Diane Borodkin, Vice President
617-558-7005 800-542-1233
www.campadvisors.com

 

Share-A-Ride
The Parents' Association is happy to announce the launch of its share-a-ride program. Some parents find it hard to pick up and drop off for all holidays or long weekends; the share-a-ride program will match up boarding families that would like to car pool at the start and end of school vacations.  Those interested should email the following information to Susan Littlefield.

Name
Student's name and grade
Address
Phone number
Dates you are available to drive students to and from Milton and /or the dates on which your child needs a ride to or from Milton.

 

Faculty profile: Shimin Zhou

In 1986, Shimin Zhou came to Milton Academy as an exchange teacher from the Experimental High School affiliated with Beijing Normal University, China’s most competitive teacher-training university.

“I was the first exchange teacher to come here from my school. Leaving my small son back home was very hard, but my mother said ‘Go. Go, I will take good care of him.’

“Everyone said I had to come here – it was such a good opportunity. I had studied English only in China from Chinese instructors and had begun to feel like no one actually spoke the language,” Shimin says.[Read More]

 

Snack Bar Spurs ‘Smoothie’ Rage
Icy December winds haven’t yet cooled the call for the new snack bar’s hottest item: all-natural fruit smoothies. When students are asked to name a favorite flavor, a cacophony of “strawberry-banana yogurt” – “no, cappuccino.” - “I love mango!” is the reply.

In an informal survey of smoothie-crazed students, chicken fingers came in a close second.
“I like chicken fingers,” says Steve Wagner ’08. “If you don’t have time for lunch, you can get it here,” he says.
[Read More]

Online Conferences Showcase Student Interests and Passions
You might think that all the student conversation in the classroom, the hallways, the dining hall and their houses might leave them speechless. Not so. [Read More]

Winter Concerts:
December 12-14, 2003


On December 12 and 14 the music department will present its annual Winter Concerts. A tradition in the school for many years, these concerts are always given the last weekend prior to the holiday break.
[Read More]

Winter Athletic Season: A Preview

With temperatures in the Boston-area at a chilly 30 degrees in early December, the ski team hopes that their dry-land practices will soon be a thing of the past. With no snow on the ground, the ski team will make use of the weight rooms and frosty fields to get in shape for the ski season. Led by captains Emily Oatis and Scott Motejunas the ski team looks forward to a stellar season on the slopes. [Read More]

Click here for a list of fall athletic awards and pictures form the "M" Club Dinner

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Annual Fund Chair, Dottie Weber ’60, P’04 and Parents’ Fund Chairs, Jeff ’70 and Cecilia Garrity P’05 officially kick-off the 2003-2004 Annual Fund Year with noisemakers at the Annual Fund Kick-Off event

….and we’re off!
The Parents’ Fund is off to a strong start thanks to the support of Milton parents and volunteers. The first phonathon on November 4, 2003 was very successful – a very special thank you to those who called. Calls made by 15 parents that evening raised more than $17,000 from 54 pledges and gifts. This success is a direct result of the enthusiasm and dedication of the following parents.
Meaghan Barrett P’08
Jackie Bechek P’06 ’07 ’10
Nancy Dougherty P’07
Victoria Florea P’07
Jeff ’70 and Cecilia Garrity P’05
Mark Kaplan P’10
Linda Kay P’05
Laura Jeppesen P’06
Ned Pride ’76 P’08 ’13
Jane Sadler P’06
Maria and Rich Sebastian P’06
Roberta Williamson Seymour P’05 ’09
Nancy Skinner P’05

The next parent phonathon is Tuesday, December 9 at 7:00p.m. (dinner at 6:30 p.m.) in the Caroline Saltonstall Building, 2nd floor. RSVP to Hilary Smyth (617) 898-2386 or hilary_smyth@milton.edu.

As of November 24, 2003 the Parents’ Fund has raised $52,130 and reached 14 percent participation.
There is still time to get involved.

We are still looking for more parents to become Parents’ Fund representatives. This is a great way to get involved in the Milton Community. A component of the Annual Fund, the Parents’ Fund generates almost 25 percent of the total unrestricted dollars raised each year and helps to make possible competitive faculty salaries, extensive extracurricular activities, scholarship support, and much more. As tuition does not cover the full cost of a Milton education, the Annual Fund provides a hidden scholarship to each and every student.

If you would like to become a Parents’ Fund representative for the Annual Fund, please contact Hilary Smyth, assistant director of annual giving, at hilary_smyth@milton.edu or (617) 898-2386.


The Class I 2004 Parent Gift
The focus of the Class I 2004 Parent Gift will be the renovation of the science building – a component of the School’s long range master plan The first solicitation along with Issue I of the Class I 2004 Parent Gift Newsletter will be mailed in early December. We hope to have 100 percent parent participation for this effort. All Class I 2004 Parent gifts and pledges must be received by June 30, 2004.

Committee Members
Sally Abrahms
Cheryl Berry
Zoe Billman
Charlotte Brody
Marc and Laurie Brown
Tom and Judy Bullitt (Chairs)
Elizabeth Cooke-King
David and Vicky Croll
David Dudley
Andreas Evriviades
Peter ’77 and Bonnie Gregory
Jeff ’74 and Roxanna Hurst
Seth Klarman
Kathryn Knight-Wise
Nancy Krieger
Nick and Pam Lazares
Louis Miller
Ruth Onwuka
Diane Patrick
Kate Rodda
Susan and William Samuelson
Beverly Savage
Kathrin Seitz
Helen Hobbs and Dennis Stone
Dottie Weber ’60

The first Class I 2004 Parent Gift phonathon is on Wednesday, December 3 at 7 p.m. (Dinner at 6:30 p.m.) in the Caroline Saltonstall Building, 2nd floor. If you have questions or would like to make your family’s contribution to the Class I 2004 Parent Gift, please contact Perry Buroker, director of annual giving, at (617) 898-2375 or perry_buroker@milton.edu.